If you're having technical problems, confused or have questions, please scroll down and read the information on this page. We strongly recommend you read the Chat Rules. It will open a new window and not disturb your chat experience.
Sex Chat Etiquette
The Free Sex Chat Rooms can get pretty crowded, naturally the nature of this website being what it is, guys tend to gravitate to it and be more out spoken than the women. Don't get us wrong, a lot of women do use the website and want the exact same thing as the guys, but they will tend to be a bit more discreet about it. Let's imagine we're at a bar scene and compare it to the global chat room area, the part where you're in a room with hundreds of all members(dance floor), some chatting freely in the main lobby, some busy in private messaging(chatting at the bar). What 90% of men will do in the global sex chat rooms is approach a female and ask something ridiculous such as "suck my cock" or "want to cyber sex". Compare this to being in a bar in real life and walking up to a female on the dance flood and flopping out your cock. It wouldn't end well, just like on the chat rooms. The guys who put the effort in and try to have a conversation are the ones who end up getting the most action.
Account Upgrades and Paid Products
Although SexChat.net is 100% free, you can pay a monthly subscription and enjoy special perks. The Text Chat Rooms has a room membership package where you can buy a permanent chat room. Become a room owner and be a moderator, add your friends as moderators and set custom room modes like invite only, members only and so on. Members who enjoy group private conversations such as cyber orgy's like this feature. The Cam Chat Rooms have an account upgrade feature which gives you access to more perks based on your whole account. Room creation is one of these including high quality cams and mics also view more at one time. All purchases are deeply appreciated and go back into making the Sex Chat network better for us all!
Upgrade your account or Buy a chat room. This link opens in a new window and will not disturb your chatting experience.
Here are some common problems with the sex chat services which may be preventing you from either access specific features or loading the chat application all together.
The Chat Application is not loading.
If the Java Text Chat Rooms are not loading, Go to www.java.com and make sure you have the latest version of Java installed. If all checks out, reset your java cache (Google: How to reset java cache) and check the first result. After that fails unplug your modem, wait 40 seconds then plug it back in. If you STILL cannot connect, the chat software could be offline due to maintenance or a fault, if this is the case check back every 20 minutes or so, it's normally not offline for long.
Who are the Moderators, what do they do?
Moderators can be different color user names (depending on which chat service you use) but always at the top of the members list. They have the ability to kick/ban members breaking rules out of the room. In some cases regular users can be Moderators too, only in designated chat rooms such a privately owned rooms (rooms which are paid for). You can be a Moderator by buying a chat room or upgrading your account.
I'm banned, I don't know why, what can I do?
90% of the time if you're banned it's because you caused an infraction, check the Sex Chat Rules and normally this will explain why you got banned. If you still have no idea why you are banned, it could of been because someone who lives close to you was banned, and your IP addresses were very similar so the ban effected you. In this case use the contact us form on the website, include your user name and if you want to speed the process up, your IP address and we will look into it. To get your IP Google "what is my IP" it will tell you.